You Don't Know What You Don't Know Until You KNOW...
Nothing is worse than being stuck in the pattern of “I don’t know”.
When you don’t know, that is disempowering your ability to decide at the highest level.
This is committing to confusion.
And guess what - a confused mind does not make a decision.
So inaction and no movement forward lives on the other side on convincing yourself that you don't know.
So many times, my clients come to me and say “I don’t know what I want or what’s right for me”
And the first thing we do is empower you to decide 🤯.
Scary right?
😱 What if I make the wrong decision?
😱 What if people judge me for the decision I made?
😱 What if I fail?
😱What if everything goes wrong?
😱 What if I lose everything?
All of these questions that come up are totally normal but that doesn’t make them any less scary.
Empowering yourself to decide is one of those things that can
feel overwhelming as the anxiety floods you when it comes time to make a decision.
So we avoid doing it because the feelings that come along with the doubt, uncertainty and fear during the decision making process are too uncomfortable. The feelings are so strong that the second they come, we run for the door every time.
I know this to be true because I’ve lived it. When the scaries came, I straight up turned into an Olympic Track Star and ran as fast as I could in the other direction 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Instead of facing it, I shopped. I turned to wine. I binged on Netflix. I did everything I could to distract myself in an attempt to fill that void. And on many occasions, I blatantly avoided making decisions all together and lost precious time living with the same results because of it.
But what happened when I actually faced it?
💟 I became free.
💟 I fell in love with myself.
💟 I began to trust & believe in myself.
💟 I created the courage to launch my business.
💟 I created a life I was excited to get out of bed for.
💟 I felt ALIVE again. And I am not just talking about living…I am talking, fully present with life running through my veins ALIVE.
😵 Was it hard? Hell yes it was.
😭 Were there times I laid on the floor in a puddle of tears? Sure did.
🥳 Was it worth it? 1000% yes.
Everything changed when I faced the reality and created the confidence to boldly & unapologetically make the hard decisions and commit to what was right for me.
And when you are ready to do the same – I’ve got you. I will be there to hold space for you and guide you as you find your way. I will help to empower you to decide what’s right for you and teach you exactly how to create the life that you are looking for.
🔥 A life that will set your soul on fire and will blow your mind because you wont even believe that you actually did it. This is my promise to you as your coach.
You can overcome every single thought that has ever held you back, convinced you that you aren’t good enough, filled you with stress & anxiety and kept you from feeling free.
You have the opportunity to see things in a completely different way. Are you ready to answer the call? 🥳
XO - Elyse
IG: @yoursoulmakeup